Since I love worship, adore music, the worship service means so much to me. Any church I go to the Pastor MUST be educated in theology, self taught is ok as long there are no deviations. Deviations create cults. Calvary Chapels so far have been very consistent for me. But there are many other local churches that have much to offer.
Most churches have different services you can chose from, large and small groups, home or in a building. Once a church I went to did not have a building, we were on Maui and met on the beach. It was pretty cool. We watched sea turtles, whales and paragliders during service.
Charity and community outreach are a must. My church is an extended family. Those small home groups are wonderful. I have met many who go to them. We had one once in our home and it was the best. We used an outline DVD from Sadleback church, "The Purpose Driven Life" series for home use. It did not tell the group what to think, but had great music videos to sing with and outlined questions to get the group to open up and bond.
Any church should feel like an extended family, not a religious group